On Making Time to Spend Time
June 13, 2009
If you are a parent, you will probably agree with the statement, “I am extremely busy.” The demands of work and home leave us virtually drained. But are our busy schedules worth the cost? In his book, Raising the Bar: Ministry for Youth in the New Millennium, Alvin Reid indicates that only thirty-four percent of families in the United States and Canada eat one meal together each day. In addition, the average father spends only eight minutes each day with his children. Moreover, only twelve percent of families pray together. Finally, the average couple spends only four minutes of uninterrupted time together a day. Do you see it, West Broad and friends? We are so busy working we are working ourselves right out of our families and relationships! What can be done to reverse this unfortunate trend? I suggest two courses of action. First, especially in times of tension and turmoil, parents must resist the notion to view their children as “responsibilities” and see them instead as God intended (Psa. 127:3-4). Secondly, husbands and wives must remember that even though God presented them as gifts to one another (Gen. 2:21-25), their relationship needs to be constantly developed and appreciated (Prov. 5:18-19; Eph. 5:28-29). So, what can we conclude? Simply that as we make time for our jobs, we must make time for our most important job: loving and directing our children and nurturing our relationship as husband and wife. Making time to spend time leads to a glorious time! Just try it, and you will see. – JLNJR (Resource: Christian Chronicle, 6/09, 35).
